As modern Desis, we are often caught in a tricky bind…
We carry the spiritual richness and beauty of our lineages and traditions
We carry the big expectations of our families
We carry the intense pressures to “keep up” with modern life
We carry all our desires, hopes, and dreams that often
conflict with these pressures and expectations
It is so easy for us to feel trapped, overwhelmed, and lost in the midst of it all, and not know our TRUTH.
And when our truth is unclear, it’s impossible to create what we truly desire… in life, and in love.
To navigate this complexity, we need people and spaces who truly UNDERSTAND it.
That’s where I come in..
Hi, I’m Kavita Jhaveri-Patel!
I have been coaching people on love, dating, relationships, and releasing karmic patterns for practically my whole life, but professionally for 16 years.
My closest relationships have been my greatest teachers.
🥰I have a strong bond with my amazing 7 year old.
😆I have been married for 18 years, where we’ve faced the possibility of divorce, and still move through the fire of facing our fears and desires together daily.
🫠I have shared my truth with my parents again and again, with a deep commitment to cultivating REAL relationships with them.
😅I have faced extreme self-consciousness about my body and beauty, and worked to build my confidence from the inside-out.
😔And like many of you, I was teased for being who I am by kids on the playground and judged for being who I am by adults who didn’t understand my culture.
My greatest passion is helping people be culturally confident, while also being fully loved, accepted, and expressed in our truth.
is here to guide you in exploring your confusion, desires, and fears head-on, creating a powerful relationship with yourself and your truth, so you can cultivate a:
Deep, Epic & Truly
Beautiful Partnership
“Before I met Kavita I was lonely and totally exhausted with dating. It wasn’t fun anymore, yet I really wanted to be in a relationship. Working with Kavita helped me to connect on a deeper level with friends and family around me, which had me feel less alone. So when I met Neerav, I was able to be way more present with him than I had with any other man. A month later we were exclusive, and 14 months later we were engaged!”
-Susan
Whether you are single and dating or have been married forever, this kind of rich, soul level love is available to you.
And the path is all about IDENTIFYING, EMBRACING, and EXPRESSING the truth of who you are and what you desire, so that you can create the love you crave.
But wait… I am already asking for what
I want and it’s still not happening!!!!!!
I hear this all the time, and here’s the straight-up truth:
We all have both strong & subtle ways that we are internally conflicted around our desires, that we reject and hide parts of ourselves, and that we push away love…even when we want it more than anything.
Let’s go deep together and get you on the path to inviting-in the love that you desire or deepening the love that you have.
HELINA’S TRANSFORMATION
“If I could have this huge transformation in 12 weeks and then shortly after find the love of my life that fits me inside and out, know that it’s really possible. You can get there too.”
NAMMY’S TRANSFORMATION
“I’m in a passionate, committed relationship and I feel completely happy, satisfied and fulfilled.”
They are engaged now!
HERE ARE A FEW OF THE THEMES
WE WILL EXPLORE:
How to face the behaviors and parts of yourself that come out in dating and partnership that you’re EMBARRASSED by or DISLIKE
What to do with REPEATING PATTERNS in love, where your partner seems a lot like your dad, or you’re always attracting unavailable people
IDENTIFY THE DEEPER REASONS YOUR GUARDS GO-UP, making you want to shut down or pull away instead of connect and communicate.
How to discern your own TRUE DESIRES from the expectations and demands of your family, friends, and culture… and even your own ego.
WEEDING-OUT THE WESTERN NARRATIVES around relationships stuck in your mind, so you can honor some of the beautiful ways of relating that we have as Desis.
Learn how to OWN YOUR TRUTH in relationships, not just to people you’re dating and partners, but also to your family and friends… even if your truth is unconventional.
Practice EXPRESSING YOURSELF without going into blame, victimization, shame, or emotional disconnection, while still being open, authentic, and honest.
How to transcend expectations of other people changing, while still being a stand for THEIR GROWTH AND DEEPENING CONNECTION with you.
JOIN US IN:
Here’s what to expect in Desi Love:
Happening March 3 – April 13, 2025
Workshops
Every Monday for 6 weeks, you’ll receive a workshop from Kavita, with reflections and exercises
Group Coaching Calls
Every Wednesday (4pm EST) & Friday (10Am EST) for 6 weeks, we will have group coaching calls to accommodate time zones (recordings provided).
Private Facebook Group
Private Facebook Group for Desi Love for questions and connection with the other participants
Lifetime access to all recordings
You are invited to join Desi Love – our 6-week journey,
If you’re wanting to be supported in ALL OF YOUR RELATIONSHIPS like conflict in partnership, aging parents, kids, specifics of dating, moving on after divorce… then you can join Transformational Relationships – a bundle of all my relationship courses plus an entire year of group coaching and community.
Transformational Relationships
+ Desi Love
Also Includes:
Create a true closeness
with family by:
- Communicating More: Allow yourself to be expressed with your parents
- Moving Through Pain: Break free from the resentments and anger, feel heard, and come to a deeper understanding of one another.
- Emotionally Connecting: Techniques to receive the love and acceptance you’ve always craved.
Deeper work around navigating dating and finding true love by:
- Releasing Past Love: Release the hurt you’re still carrying from your Exes so you can show up ready for love now.
- Unlocking Your Heart: Identify the deeper blocks to love that stem from childhood and family, so you can open yourself to true love.
- Trust Your Intuition: Access a renewed sense of trust inside of yourself, and learn to listen to your intuition.
Become
Emotionally Available By:
- Breaking Rules: Why rules like “take it slow” or “don’t get too excited” are WRONG, and how to pace with yourself and someone you like in a healthy way.
- Embracing Emotions: Increase your emotional bandwidth, so you can identify the people that are emotionally available, and filter out the rest.
- Feeling Chosen: Transcend your strong independent side to create a deeper sense of connection through vulnerability with someone special.
Each month join live
coaching calls with Kavita.
Where you can get coached and ask anything!
All relationships are on the table. We will be talking about family, dating, past love, marriage, partnership, conflict, communication, insecurities, vulnerability…all of it!
Worth: $500
You can bring all your questions to the community, where Kavita and her team will provide specific coaching for you and your situation.
I love community. Gathering a group of like minded people that are curious and interested in self growth, self love, and connection is powerful. That’s the environment we have created.
Ready to Join?
6 weeks of workshops
6 weeks of group coaching, twice/week
6 week access to our Desi Love private facebook group
Regular Price $500
$250 – payment-in-full
$69 – 4 monthly payments
Bundle with more programs and coaching
Regular Price $6,600
$550 – payment-in-full
$53 – 12 monthly payments
POOJA’S TRANSFORMATION
“Kavita has helped me with so much more than just finding love. It’s honestly the best thing I have ever done investment wise in my life.”
Pooja’s Engagement
“Working with Kavita, without a doubt, completely changed my life.
When I called her to talk about my relationship that was ending, I was broken and hurting in a way that I had never experienced before. I actually didn’t even know if she could really help me, only because I felt like I had been trying everything up until that point. Kavita not only helped me, she transformed me. She is THE person I go to for relationship support and I trust her with my whole heart. If you’re feeling a tug on your heart that you might want to work with her too, please do yourself a favor and make it happen. Your life will never be the same for all the most incredible reasons.”
-Nitika Chopra
FAQs
- Is this for single people or people in partnership?
It’s for both. I really believe we can learn from each other no matter our relationship status, and the true work isn’t specific to certain partnerships. - I am not sure I can make the calls. Will I still get value?
Absolutely. You will receive the recordings afterwards, but even if you don’t have time to listen to those, you can ask as many questions and get the coaching you need in the private Facebook group. - I am queer or in a racially-mixed relationship. Can you support me?
Yes! My work isn’t based in narrow gender-norms or ideas of “masculine and feminine polarity” that often miss the spiritual truth that we contain it all. My language sometimes defaults to the heteronormative, but I am always working to be considerate and inclusive, and believe my work works for all sexual orientations. In terms of racially-mixed relationships, I have no judgment, and a lot of sensitivity to the colorism and racism that can exist in the Desi community. - Is this course open to all genders?
Desi Love is open to all genders. The other courses in the Transformational Relationships bundle are geared towards women, but I do feel they are beneficial for everyone to learn from. If you join, please know that my spaces center women. - Is this course rooted in a specific religion?
I’m Jain and my husband is Hindu. My teachings are often informed by my spiritual understandings, but I’m in no way dogmatic in my workshops, and am speaking mostly from universal spiritual truths. No matter what your religion or spiritual path, you are welcome here. - How much time will the coursework take me?
About 2 hours a week. But you can spend as little as much time as you need given your own pace. - Will you be offering Desi Love again?
I am not sure! Even if I offer Desi Love again, it may not be live, or at this price. If you are interested and can make it happen, join us now! - If I join Desi Love + Transformational Relationships, can I cancel at any time?
The 12-month payment option is not a membership, it’s a payment plan for the entire program. Since you receive immediate access to all the courses, you are required to make all the payments. - Do you offer refunds?
We are confident that if you are committed to transforming this part of your life and engage with the program, you will absolutely get so much out of this work! That being said, if you have engaged with the program and are unsatisfied, you can reach out to the team at support@kavitajhaveri.com for support. If we cannot resolve your concerns, you have until March 17th, 2025 to ask for a refund. No refunds or cancellations will be granted after that date, so please ask all the questions you need before enrolling 🙂
“There are some people who have a knack for lovingly seeing right into your soul. Kavita is one of those people. As a dear friend, I know her more deeply than most, and I can easily say that she has one of the most service-oriented hearts I’ve ever known. She is a true champion of love, compassion, and presence, and has a gift for turning love blocks into access points for connection. If you crave soul-level love in your life, you’re in the right place.”
-Nisha Moodley, Women’s Leadership Coach
“Working with Kavita opened my eyes to what I deserve, and about my fears in love that were holding me back.
I’m much clearer about the type of partner and love I want to receive, how to work with my own fears in relationships, and how to move forward with an optimism about love. It’s made all the difference in the world to have her positive, wise guidance navigating the confusion of love, and I feel so much more confident in myself to know what I want and how to make sure I’m with the right person than every before. If you’re looking for someone to zone in on your blind spots and help you get clarity on why you’re not receiving the love or having the relationship you want, it’s time to work with Kavita. She’s the real deal and I usually don’t listen to anyone.”
-Nitika Chopra